perf(backend): avoid N+1 selects from user table when packing many entities (#13911)

* perf(backend): avoid N+1 selects from `user` table when packing many entities

* perf(backend): use `packMany` instead of mapping to `pack`

packages/backend/src/server/api/endpoints/following/requests/list.ts

@@ -71,7 +71,7 @@ export default class extends Endpoint<typeof meta, typeof paramDef> { // eslint-
 				.limit(ps.limit)
 				.getMany();
 
-			return await Promise.all(requests.map(req => this.followRequestEntityService.pack(req)));
+			return await this.followRequestEntityService.packMany(requests, me);
 		});
 	}
 }